So I know I'm not famous(yet) and only a handful of you truly know me, but I thought I would give my followers a chance to ask me absolutely anything they wanted to. I was surprised by some of the questions but I had a pleasure in answering them all. Please feel free to ask more or follow up on any of the answers that I've already given. Here is goes!
Man...pretty much anything. I have so much inside of me to say, but they only seems to come out at certain points. Those times are mostly in the middle of the night. I have a dream or can't go back to sleep so I write. I'm an emotional person so a lot of times when I write, it's because whatever im going through at the moment or have gone through, deserves to be shared. So I do just that.
Is it true that you haven't been on an elevator since 2009?
Nope it isn't true! My friend was in the hospital this year and I had no choice but to get on the elevator to visit him. But before then. Yep! I am extremely claustrophobic and elevators gives me anxiety. I got stuck on one in college after just "getting over my fear" so that put me right back to where I was.
Now that you're losing weight, do guys try to approach you more than they did before you started losing it? These are guys that knew you before the weight loss?
Hmmmm. Good question. Guys that knew me before the weight loss have not tried to pursue me now that I've lost weight. I wish I could be on some, "Mike Jones, Back then they didn't want me type stuff" but that isn't the case. Lol. I will say that I have been approached more by random guys now that I'm a few pounds lighter than when I was heavier. But obviously that could mean absolutely nothing because I'm still single as a dollar bill. Lol
What food won't you eat?
I am such a picky eater so there is a lot of food I won't eat. But I will have to say sushi. The idea of raw cold fish just sickens me. Why would they do that to us? *sigh*
Do you ever feel like there are exceptions to this qoute?
This is tough. We are ALWAYS growing. I feel even when we THINK we have reached our full potential, we could be better. So me falling in love with a man who is working hard but not in his career of choice yet, has a car but it's not the nicest, or makes money but not as much as he would like, that wouldn't be so much of an issue for me. If im seeing his drive, ambition, and his determination, I know that he will make it to where he wants and needs to be soon and very soon. Now HOWEVER, if you're dealing with a man that doesn't work, doesn't pay bills, won't even try to be a responsible adult, I say hell no. He may make it to where he wants to be but, I wouldn't be able to hang around for the ride. Everyone has potential. But you have to show me you're trying to reach your highest. Show me your heart. That's what I'd rather fall in love with anyway. See that doesn't change.
If you had the power to remove one issue that affects the growth of the world for the betterment what would that issue be? What was your reasoning for selecting your issue?
Whew. That's tough. It's so much wrong in the world we live in. So where do I start...Hmmm I would have to say that I would remove the ability for the human race to see and notice racial and social differencences amongst one another. It may sound crazy but even in our differences, if we could see each other the same as the next, then we would treat each other accordingly. No decisions would be based on race or social status. We would all be equal in the way we are treated.
So this celebacy thing, how's it working out for you? How long has it been?
Ok so it's been 9 months. Well, let's just say it's hard. But rewarding. There are so many emotions tied to sex when it comes to me. I'd rather save it for my husband instead of allowing it to be a barrier and take over the relationship. Or to just give it to anyone who is of course nondeserving. Choosing to be celibate has been one of the best decisions I've made and I believe God will reward me for that.
If you could see your mother just one more time, what would you do? Say?
I would hug and kiss her and not let her go. I would tell her all about the last 2 years of my life and ask her for her advice. She was my Olivia Pope. She "fixed" all of my problems and helped me with EVERYTHING. So I would ask her for her wisdom so I could really take care of myself and handle my problems the best way. I wouldn't want to let her go. I would want to talk all night until I couldn't talk anymore or until she shut me up. Lol oh how I miss that feisty lady. Smooches Ma! Rest in Love.
Welp those are the bulk of my questions! Please comment below and again, feel free to ask any of your own.
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Good questions and great answers.
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